Are You Trying To Decide If You Should Have a Baby?
Take The Short Quiz below!
Should I Have a Baby QUIZ
1. Are you prepared and willing to adapt to the changes that parenthood will bring and face the challenges as well as the joys?
A. Yes
B. Maybe
C. Unsure / No
2. Do your life goals, plans and desires conflict with or complement being a parent?
A. Complement
B. A little of both
C. Conflict
3. Are you making this decision based purely on what you want, without being influenced by what others or society want or expect of you?
A. Yes
B. Maybe
C. Unsure / No
A. Yes
B. Maybe
C. Unsure / No
2. Do your life goals, plans and desires conflict with or complement being a parent?
A. Complement
B. A little of both
C. Conflict
3. Are you making this decision based purely on what you want, without being influenced by what others or society want or expect of you?
A. Yes
B. Maybe
C. Unsure / No
If you answered 'A' to all three questions: You are leaning more towards having a baby but seem to be in a good frame of mind to consider either option - parenthood or a childfree path - you are thinking clearly and from a healthy viewpoint. Perhaps certain fears or challenges are the main blocks to feeling confident in choosing your future path.
If you answered 'B' to one or more questions: More consideration is needed. Even though you may want a baby to some degree, your decision-making is influenced by external factors and/or unhealthy motivating reasons. It would be helpful for you to explore further any problematic internal and external factors that are influencing your thoughts and feelings and complicating your ability to clearly see what choice would be the best one for you - children or not.
If you answered 'C' to one or more questions: Your decision about whether to have a baby or not is complicated by different factors. Get further help to work through any concerns & complications, and explore your motivating reasons, influences, and fears in more depth to help clarify which path would be best for you - kids or not.
If you answered 'B' to one or more questions: More consideration is needed. Even though you may want a baby to some degree, your decision-making is influenced by external factors and/or unhealthy motivating reasons. It would be helpful for you to explore further any problematic internal and external factors that are influencing your thoughts and feelings and complicating your ability to clearly see what choice would be the best one for you - children or not.
If you answered 'C' to one or more questions: Your decision about whether to have a baby or not is complicated by different factors. Get further help to work through any concerns & complications, and explore your motivating reasons, influences, and fears in more depth to help clarify which path would be best for you - kids or not.
Need further help? Take a comprehensive quiz (see below) or choose from one of the other 3 options:
Self-Help
A specially-designed program that guides you step-by-step to discover the best choice for you - kids or not - and helps you move forward with confidence in your decision.
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