The Ultimate Guide To Making Your Decision
Discover the right choice for you -
having children or staying childfree
This comprehensive & professionally written eBook is filled with advice, strategies & information that will help you to get clear and end your confusion.
6 essential steps will help you to figure out the best choice for you and answer:
Do I really want kids?
Should I have kids or stay childfree?
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Find out more about what's in the eBook (including the 6 key steps) below
"My thoughts and feelings about whether to have a child were so muddled and conflicted. I kept going around in circles and wasn't getting anywhere on my own. The book gave me the missing pieces I needed to make sense of everything so I could finally see clearly what I really wanted and what decision was right for me."
- Jenna T (Vancouver, Canada)
- Jenna T (Vancouver, Canada)
The Six Steps In The eBook
STEP 1
Figuring out who you are and what you want for your life:
- Personality type
- Strengths & weaknesses
- Values
- Life Goals
- The driving purpose and individual meaning(s) of your life
- A Meaningful life and/or happiness
- Identifying if your meaning(s) of life are more aligned with parenthood or a childfree future
STEP 2
Exploring how a child might change different aspects of your life:
- Evaluating your current life and how satisfied you are
- Considering how a child would impact you and the different areas of your life, and how well you would adapt to these changes:
STEP 3
Evaluating your motivating reasons for wanting a child or staying childfree:
- Identifying your motivating reasons
- Evaluating motivating reasons:
STEP 4
Other aspects that are influencing you and your decision:
- Identifying the fears, obstacles or challenges that are influencing your decision
- Fears and about parenthood or staying childfree
- Fear of the unknown
- Locus of control
- The importance of knowing your locus of control for this decision
- Dealing with anxiety and fear
- Beliefs, expectations & assumptions of parenthood vs childfree
- Questioning your beliefs, expectations & assumptions about parenthood ad living childfree
- Identifying which beliefs, expectations & assumptions are positive and negative
- External pressures and influences
- Relationship complications:
STEP 5
Making your decision:
- Considering being a single parent
- Non-traditional parenthood & other options for having children as part of your life
- Considering traditional parenthood
- Considering staying childfree
- Decision-making
- Evaluating the pros & cons, opportunities and challenges
- Which should rule - my heart, my head or my gut instinct
- Valuations of future possibilities
- Weighing everything up
- The decision-making process: breaking it down into steps
- Where to now...
STEP 6
Going forward with peace and confidence in your decision:
- Moving forward with a plan
- Dealing with fear, doubts, or regrets, if they surface
- Dealing with the opinions, expectations and pressures of others
- Going forward with peace and confidence in your decision if you choose a childfree path
- Going forward with peace and confidence in your decision if you choose to have a child/children
- Acceptance
Figuring out who you are and what you want for your life:
- Personality type
- Strengths & weaknesses
- Values
- Life Goals
- The driving purpose and individual meaning(s) of your life
- A Meaningful life and/or happiness
- Identifying if your meaning(s) of life are more aligned with parenthood or a childfree future
STEP 2
Exploring how a child might change different aspects of your life:
- Evaluating your current life and how satisfied you are
- Considering how a child would impact you and the different areas of your life, and how well you would adapt to these changes:
- Age & Timing
- Health – physical & mental
- Relationship health & readiness
- Leisure & time to yourself, freedom & independence
- Work/Career/Education
- Finances
- Practical aspects
- Support
STEP 3
Evaluating your motivating reasons for wanting a child or staying childfree:
- Identifying your motivating reasons
- Evaluating motivating reasons:
- 'Fear of missing out’
- 'To be happy or happier'
- ‘I’m happy with my life and/or relationship the way it is and don't want it to change’
- 'I'll be lonely when I'm old if I don't have children'
- 'It is what I was born to do'
- ‘To feel loved’
- 'I don't particularly like babies or kids'
- ‘Will I regret not having children later on?’
- ‘Feeling left out’
STEP 4
Other aspects that are influencing you and your decision:
- Identifying the fears, obstacles or challenges that are influencing your decision
- Fears and about parenthood or staying childfree
- Fear of the unknown
- Locus of control
- The importance of knowing your locus of control for this decision
- Dealing with anxiety and fear
- Beliefs, expectations & assumptions of parenthood vs childfree
- Questioning your beliefs, expectations & assumptions about parenthood ad living childfree
- Identifying which beliefs, expectations & assumptions are positive and negative
- External pressures and influences
- Relationship complications:
- My partner doesn't know if he/she wants kids, or isn't ready yet, or definitely doesn't want kids (or any more kids if they already have children from a previous relationship) OR VICE VERSA – that is, you’re the one who isn’t sure if you want kids
- I'm not sure if our relationship would cope with having a child, and/or that my partner would make a good parent, and/or I’m concerned that it would have a negative effect on our relationship
STEP 5
Making your decision:
- Considering being a single parent
- Non-traditional parenthood & other options for having children as part of your life
- Considering traditional parenthood
- Considering staying childfree
- Decision-making
- Evaluating the pros & cons, opportunities and challenges
- Which should rule - my heart, my head or my gut instinct
- Valuations of future possibilities
- Weighing everything up
- The decision-making process: breaking it down into steps
- Where to now...
STEP 6
Going forward with peace and confidence in your decision:
- Moving forward with a plan
- Dealing with fear, doubts, or regrets, if they surface
- Dealing with the opinions, expectations and pressures of others
- Going forward with peace and confidence in your decision if you choose a childfree path
- Going forward with peace and confidence in your decision if you choose to have a child/children
- Acceptance
Find Answers To Your Questions...
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This eBook will help you answer the difficult questions you may be struggling with such as:
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